"Trust can be a tough issue for kids. Chances are, your students want to rely on God for everything, but are still holding on to the ideal of self-sufficiency. Surrendering to Christ Together looks at the life of Jesus and shows students how giving in to God can be the best decision they will ever make. Six sessions will let students explore the heart issues of surrender that lead to deeper worship: .Afloat in a Storm: How do I trust God when everything seems to be falling apart? .The Key to Significance: How do I let go of my goals and discover what God wants me to do? .True Greatness: How do I become great in God s eyes? .Wild Gratitude: How do I respond to Christ for everything he s done for me? .Ultimate Trust: How do I know it's God s will if it s the thing that makes the least sense? .Victory Over Death: What does it mean to me that Jesus conquered death? Students who develop a lifelong faith yield to Jesus at every turn. Surrendering to Christ Together is the best way to help your kids learn that submission to God truly is the best way to live."


  • SKU: 9780310249825
  • UPC: 025986249823
  • SKU10: 0310249821
  • Title: Surrendering to Christ
  • Series: Experiencing Christ Together Experiencing Christ Together
  • Qty Remaining Online: 4
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • Date Published: Mar 2005
  • Pages: 112
  • Weight lbs: 0.35
  • Dimensions: 9.18" L x 6.30" W x 0.32" H
  • Features: Price on Product
  • Themes: Theometrics | Evangelical;
  • Subject: Christian Education - Adult

Chapter Excerpt

Chapter One


Andrea's husband came home with the news that he had lost his job. They had their lives planned for many years: they loved the area, their kids' school, the kids' youth programs, their ministry in the church, and their friendships at church. They'd had no intention of moving, but he would be out of work in three months. Three months! How could anyone find a new job so fast in a down economy?

Days later, Andrea's small group called a prayer time for her family. She was embarrassed and canceled it. She didn't want to be the sole recipient of all their prayers; she was embarrassed to take time out of everyone's day just to pray for her. But the group pushed and pushed until she committed to a date and time.

When the group met, one member had put together a page-long list of items to pray for, including everything from a new job to peace, from increased awareness of God's care to finances. The list was humbling to read. They had thought of everything Andrea could possibly worry about or question as she faced the next few months. Andrea sensed God's gentle voice showing her that these people were his physical arms around her as her family faced their loss and looked ahead for new direction. Through these people, God would keep her afloat as she weathered the storm.


A life oriented toward worshiping God, surrendering to him, begins with trust. To what degree do we trust God to care for us and those we love, regardless of circumstances? Different personalities have different natural responses to tough circumstances, both in the short run and over the long haul. It's helpful to know what comes naturally to different members of your group.

1. How do you typically respond when trouble hits your life? (Select all that apply.)

I panic. I worry. I become unemotional and focus on handling things. I handle a short crisis well, but if the painful situation goes on and on, it's hard for me to persevere. I freeze up in a sudden crisis, but if the painful situation goes on, I pull myself together for a potential marathon. I become hyperactive. I distract myself with food, entertainment, the Internet, work, shopping, or _____________________________. I talk to friends. I isolate myself. I get depressed. I pray. I ask people for help. Other: _______________________________________

2. Whether your group is brand new or ongoing, it's always important to reflect on and review your values together. On pages 72-73 is a sample agreement with the values we've found most useful in sustaining healthy, balanced groups. We recommend that you choose one or two values-ones you haven't previously focused on or have room to grow in-to emphasize during this study. Choose ones that will take your group to the next stage of intimacy and spiritual health.

For new groups: A study on surrender may prompt group members to share areas of their lives they want to surrender more deeply to God. This is private information that requires a high level of trust, so two values you might want to emphasize are "safe environment" and "confidentiality."

For existing groups: If you feel that the trust level in your group is already high, you can go the next step by emphasizing "spiritual partners." Partners can check in with each other weekly to encourage one another in surrendering to God more deeply and maintaining a vibrant personal time with him. If the idea of spiritual partners is new to you, you'll learn more about it in session 2.


Several of Jesus' disciples were professional fishermen. They had spent years on the Sea of Galilee and had been through countless storms. But one evening, crossing the sea with Jesus, the disciples found themselves in a squall that made them panic.

Storms happen. Becoming followers of Jesus doesn't change that fact, but it does offer new ways to think about and respond to storms-if we're willing.

3. Read Mark 4:35-41. Describe the scene:

Who was there? What did the disciples do when the waves started breaking over the boat?

Why did they respond that way?

4. Why do you think they questioned Christ's care for them (verse 38)?

5. Jesus said his followers' fear reflected a lack of faith (verse 40). Faith means belief or trust. What should they have believed or trusted?

6. What would a faith-filled response to the storm have been?

7. What did the disciples learn about Jesus from this experience?

8. How is this story relevant to the storms-large and small-that we encounter in life?

9. If we know Jesus has authority even over the wind and waves, why is it still hard for many of us to trust him when painful or discouraging events occur?

10. What current situation is challenging you to trust Jesus and/or persevere through pain?


Read Mark 8:1-21. What do the disciples have trouble trusting about Jesus in this passage? What reasons for their lack of trust does Jesus give?

What does Paul urge the Colossians to believe about Jesus in Colossians 1:15-22? Why are these things so important to trust-not just intellectually, but at our core-when we go through life's storms? What in this passage motivates you to surrender your worries to Christ?


11. Pray for those who mentioned difficult situations in question 10. You might want to gather around a person and place your hands on his or her shoulders to communicate your support while you pray.

12. The Prayer and Praise Report on page 19 is a good place to keep track of the group's prayer requests and answers to prayer. Are there any additional requests you'd like the group to pray for this week?

13. A regular habit of worship can build our trust in God because it focuses our attention on what makes him trustworthy. Worship strengthens us for the long haul. Here are two ideas for responding to this study with worship:

Read Psalm 31 aloud together. If you want to be creative, let half your group say the odd-numbered verses and the other half say the even-numbered ones. (In a couple's group, let the men and women be the two sets of speakers.) When you finish, allow some open time for group members to add their own words of praise, perhaps based on things that struck them from the psalm.

Use a song from the DVD, the Life Together Worship series, or a CD of your choice, to worship God with music. Play a song once while the group simply listens prayerfully, perhaps with eyes closed. Play it again with the volume loud enough that people will feel comfortable singing.



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